Addiction destroys connections

Earlier this month I heard on a TED Talk that the opposite of addiction is not sobriety; it is connection. This really hit home with me. So many loved ones have severed connections while succumbing to addictions. Due to denial the tables were always turned to say that I was the one who ‘left’. But by the time I severed ties to save myself there was nothing left to leave…

As a good enabler and flying monkey I ignored so much blatant antisocial and inappropriate behavior. Now that the light is on I want others to see the world as I do, but have to stay patient and realize how long it took me.. others may still have decades of denial to endure. If I care about them it feels like watching young children play on a high ledge. I am always on edge, fearful of the inevitable fall, and cannot enjoy the moment as much as I wish I could. Staying away is excruciatingly painful, but ultimately the only choice right now. I cannot deny my truth.

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